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I <MELT> NJ: Raising Two Jersey Girls in the Long Winter of 2026
I want my girls to be like salt,
Melting ICE with the slightest touch,
Clearing a path for all their neighbors…
Jan 284 min read


I <DIVE> NJ: 7 Lessons Learned Over 7 Years of Sobriety
It’s fitting that Thanksgiving was so late this year because I’m still basking in a glow of gratitude. This morning I woke up seven years sober. That’s 2,557 days with no hangovers, no blackouts, no existential dread …okay that last one hasn’t gone away completely, but now when dread sits on my chest, it weighs a lot less. At times, especially in the beginning, it was incredibly hard, but miraculously it’s gotten easier every year, even if it isn’t easy every second of every
Dec 2, 20253 min read


I <PICK> NJ: Watching My Family Grow From Under The Apple Trees
The first time Tara and I went apple picking at Hillcrest Orchards was almost exactly three years ago. Our first trip to the orchard in...
Oct 2, 20253 min read


I <COSTANZA> NJ: Imploring Toddlers to Embrace Home Sweet Home & Society Simultaneously
This is not the blog I intended to write today: I tried to write something inspired by my failed attempt to teach Margo that the next...
Sep 30, 20252 min read
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